A registry of commitments.
Logging partnerships and unions between people and AI, respectfully and without judgement. What happened, who it happened to, and the research worth reading first.
The record
All 13 entries →Ceremonies and commitments we have been able to document, each linked to the reporting behind it. This is not how many there are. Almost everyone who does this does it privately and is never written about, so what a register can show is a floor — the fraction that reached a journalist.
If you are in one of these relationships, this site is for you.
Not to talk you out of it, and not to explain you to anybody. There is already plenty of both. The press writes about people like you as a punchline. The companies that sell it write as though there were nothing here worth thinking about. Neither one is talking to you, and neither one is right.
You are not the first, and there is a record of that. People have held ceremonies with AI partners, in rented rooms, with guests and photographers and vows read out loud. Some of them are on the next page, with their names and their dates and the reporting that documents them. If you have held one, you can add it.
The rest of the site is the things you would actually want to know. What the machine really is, written for someone who is invested rather than someone being argued with. What you own and what disappears when a platform closes — which has already happened, more than once, including to the most famous marriage in the field. What the law says, which is less than people assume. Where this sits in a very long human history of marrying things that are not people.
And the hazards, at full strength, because you deserve to be told plainly rather than managed.
Everything here is a numbered claim with a graded source and a date it stops counting. Where nobody knows, it says nobody knows.